Stats:

  • 27 Year Old Female
  • Living in the United States
  • Resides in a Medium-Large Sized City
  • Single
  • Has 1 Child

There is not much I can tell you in this page that you will not be able to gather from my posts. However; I do believe that a background story would be at least a little helpful in further understanding me. Because, you obviously want to know more if you clicked this link.

Pretty Girl’s Background:

I was born in the east of the United States, and moved to the midwest by the time I was 4 years old. I was raised by my two parents, while living with my two older sisters, one 6 years older and the other 4 years older. My sister, the middle child, was my best friend growing up. We did everything together, including me going to spend the night at her friends houses. I was an average student, that later would turn into below average one once I entered high school. This was mostly due to bordem and my first love.  A very defining person in my life, for the worse. This would give way to years and years of low self-esteem. He told me no would want me, no one should want me… basically I was a piece of shit. The worst part was that I believed him. At that age neither of us could discern between another person not being right for us and a person not being right as a person. We wanted to be right for each other but we were not, so instead of parting ways it became a battle for almost 7 years. Following those years with him I had moved to the west, got married, had a child, moved back, got a divorce. Then I proceeded to move to a few different states in search of that ever elusive love from another. I went farther west, almost to the ocean for a man I fell in love with. I found what I was looking for but not in another person, I found it within myself. What I had really been missing wasn’t someone in my life, I was missing me. Somehow through my 7 year hell I lost who I was, I lost all my confidence… I lost myself. It took took me almost 7 years to find myself again. You may call my honesty, narissiscm… you may call my confidence, egotism… you may even call my behavior at times, slutty. But, you know what I call myself… me. I am just me.

So now I have moved back to the midwest… now I am back this time, as me.

5 Responses to “About Pretty Girl”

  1. Mephit said

    niki, your story sounds eerily familiar and I hope that you have realized by now that you ARE a beautiful person, inside but also outside. I love this idea. Keep it up, i want to follow up on it. Later, Meph

  2. dollyprincess said

    Hi Pretty Girl. Good day to you. I’m very proud of your spirit to be who you are now. Love hurts, and love makes people lost their mind and forgot to love themselves in the 1st place.

    I just broke up yesterday. That guy is 3 years younger than me. I thought he’s the right person after 3 times I broke up. But I was wrong.

    But thank God, he revealed his true colours in our early relationship. So that I can get rid of him earlier.

    That is why I’m creating a blog dedicated especially for girls. I can express and share everything regarding my view as well as my experiences.

    It’s an honor if you can have a visit to my blog. Be strong Pretty Girl. 🙂

  3. Hello, beautiful!

    Your story impressed me much…and that’s because I can understand how you felt all these years.

    Sometimes I wish I could have supernatural powers to make this world right, much better, more beautiful…

    Sometimes I feel so embarrassed because I’m a man…seeing how other people threats women, makes me sick of this world…

    You should be strong, keep your heart simple, there is someone who loves you and care about you!

    Costin

  4. Kelly said

    I can’t imagine how much of a hell it would be to endure an emotionaly abusive intimate relationship at the ages 13 to 20 years old. My hat is off to you for doing so and then being able to “find” yourself afterward.

    Love and best wishes to you Pretty Girl!

  5. Mark said

    I may be a man but I have fought low-selfesteem for many years. I had problems learning early then I had real bad acne and its taken 25 years to get to close to “normal”. I live in NJ but you can see my blog and find out more.

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