The Diamond House: The Walls We Build

Ever met someone that you really liked and their inner light shined bright? Be careful because you may be looking at them through their diamond house. It is so easy these days to fall for the person you see behind the diamond wall that you seem to miss that there even is a wall. So what are the signs that someone is living in their own diamond house?

Diamonds Change Perception

One clue to look for is the guy that says “I am a simple man that wants simple things.” No one is simple, everyone has complexities… especially the diamond houses. They appear to be simple and straight forward only because they hide the complex and emotional side of themselves behind the wall. They want desperately simplicity. And as an outsider looking through a beautiful diamond the brilliance masks what really is inside.

Another sign, which is one of the biggest tell tale signs, is that the closer you get whether initiated by you or them the further they recede away from you. You see they do not want you getting so close to the diamond house that you will be able to see right through it. But make no mistake, even if you can see what is on the inside you will never be able to break through. Bang your head and your little fists against the diamonds, try as you might, but you will never be able to break through.

One of the biggest dangers of a diamond house man is their lack of empathy and taking risks. They will never be able to love you or give you their love because that is too risky. They would have to make a hole in the diamond to reach through, thus leaving them vulnerable. It took years of high pressure emotions being stuffed and layered into their walls until the pressure turned the dark emotions into diamonds. They will not risk their walls coming down, not even for someone who truly loves them… wall or not. Just remember they will never be able to give you the one thing you really want and deserve… them.

The one thing that diamond house men know is manipulation. They know where to stand to reflect the light of their walls. They seem driven, they seem to to know exactly what they want, and their brilliance can be overwhelming. But make no mistake these men only know where to stand so that the cuts of the diamonds reflect back what you want to see. They have learned how to walk through their world hiding the fact that their brilliance is only a wall only their house. They want to be everything they have glimmered toward you, they are not liars, they are just fearful.

Remember there are no simple people, only people who try to simplify complexity. Beware of simple brillance, it is rarely what it seems to be.